Frank Jay Porcaro: Living Like Water, Having Awareness of Death and Detaching from Every Identity You Create
Episode 135: While working in a retirement home at age 18, Frank Jay Porcaro witnessed people on their death bed regretting their life. This experience opened his eyes to the consequences of the consistent unconscious decisions that most people make throughout their life.Frank Jay saw first hand that the decisions people made that seemed fine in the moment often led to paying a big price later on. He understood clearly that there had to be something more to life than just striving for money, paying the bills, taking care of general responsibilities and accumulating things. In his feeling he knew there was a deeper meaning to it all.This is where his quest began. He followed that inclination and eight years later after overcoming many internal and external obstacles and quickly developing mastery in highly specialized training in the field of self-development, he’s become the co-founder of an advanced communication retreat company called International Tribe Design. He is also an International Speaker and Coach. People from all over the world that are ready to make a personal transformation seek him out and he powerfully facilitates that transformation with them. Frank Jay has positively impacted tens of thousands of lives through his live events in currently 5 countries and 3 continents.Frank Jay deliberately works exclusively with clients that are looking to develop a life that is an exact replica of their character. His clients are those want go all the way, and be connected to themselves and to their purpose, and to their tribe. They are someone that is ready to grow and recognize that living in service, they give what they’ve become. He is actively traveling the world and living his adventure while speaking to audiences of all ages, facilitating retreats in exotic locations and meeting his 12-month mastery clients in person, globally.Show notes:
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Frank Jay had a rough childhood; his dad left when he was a baby and his mom worked 2-3 jobs to get by
Playing sports was something that kept him in a straight path but when he was 18 he hit rock bottom
How he got lost in an identity and how he started to notice the darkness surfacing
He got a job in a nursing home where he went into rooms of patients and persuade them to go to therapy
How he constantly saw the people in nursing homes regret their life
How he was surrounded by so much negativity and realize he wanted to be free from it
He realized that if he wouldn't take personal responsibility nothing's going to change in his life
Why he was relentless in seeking and how it leveled him up
How he started his journey in personal development
Why he moved away from negative relationships and how he became a positive influence to everyone
The process of turning his struggles to strength
Why it's not okay to be intertwined with your own identity
The beauty of being like water and how to do it
How to balance the ebb and flow of your life
Why you should always do things purposefully
"Sometimes love is expressed in letting go."
Why living life in a context of death is not a good thing
"When you accept death that's when you start to actually live."
It's better to be open and vulnerable than to be indifferent
How to find balance between being too attached and too unattached
Must-read book: Life Was Never Meant to be a Struggle by Stuart Wilde
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