Fantasy, Taboo and Being Generous in Love with John Wineland

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Episode 293: JohnWineland, a Los Angeles based relationship coach, speaker and teacher has been guiding both men and women in the realms of life purpose, relational communication, sexual intimacy and embodiment for over a decade. John's clients include entrepreneurs, leading thinkers in the world of personal development and entertainment, Ted speakers and creative leaders in Hollywood. John brings a multi-faceted approach, which is both energetic and highly practical, to his workshops and experiential coaching sessions. John's embodiment-driven teaching draws from not only over 30 years experience of his own Buddhist meditative practice, but from 10 years intensive study and practice with renowned Yogic Intimacy teacher, David Deida.

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    • What John Wineland is currently musing about.

    • How he avoids writer's block.

    • How he keeps his nervous system clean so he can be a vessel.

    • An example of being embodied while being scared of abandonment.

    • "Yogic revealing"

    • How does it feed the masculine to see the range of the feminine?

    • Why would I show a man my ditsy, fun side when I’m supposed to be strong - what if I look dumb?

    • Why being in your head and being analytical is not being embodied.

    • “Embodiment at its core is really a journey into who you are. That’s why people are craving it.”

    • Taboo definition - the dark sexual energy and examples - dirty talk, cutting, defilement, bondage.

    • We all have some dark sexual energy - it’s been repressed in most of us.

    • The gifts that our taboos can teach us.

    • Madelyn reveals her taboo.

    • “Defiling with love”

    • “Sex is the deepest yoga.”

    • "When you activate and open your heart, you then practice into the darker realms and a clearing will take place."

    • How do we know when it’s time to leave a relationship?

    • John's stance on dating and dating apps.

    • The big mistake people make is that they don’t spend time alone and develop their gifts and their capacity to be with themself.

    • "When you become full and radiant with your feminine expression, you don't need a dating app."

    • "If you can’t be alone, then you can’t be in a relationship."

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